Comments on: pictures of you http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/ navigating the spaces between in and out Fri, 27 Nov 2009 12:06:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: tongue-tied http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-243 Fri, 10 Oct 2008 22:15:10 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-243 you live through it and not drown :::::::: hugs ::::::::: you live through it
and not drown
:::::::: hugs :::::::::

]]> by: Acquafortis http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-241 Thu, 09 Oct 2008 18:27:42 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-241 I'm really sorry for what you're passing through. You have my silent far away support. I’m really sorry for what you’re passing through. You have my silent far away support.

]]> by: Erin http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-239 Sun, 05 Oct 2008 22:01:29 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-239 Well written. I felt the same despair when my ex and I split. We hadn't been together as long as you, and hadn't had kids yet, and yet it was still wrenching. I keep the photos in a box and he kept most of the rest out of anger. He sent some things in small spurts as the years went on. We have been separated for 6 years and I can't believe it's been that long when I read your blog posts. It seems like yesterday. Although the pain has mostly subsided for me, sometimes a song, or a photograph, or a movie will remind me... Just wanted to say that I've stood in your shoes. I'm sorry that you, and he, and your children are going through this. P.S. Love Missy Higgins Well written. I felt the same despair when my ex and I split. We hadn’t been together as long as you, and hadn’t had kids yet, and yet it was still wrenching. I keep the photos in a box and he kept most of the rest out of anger. He sent some things in small spurts as the years went on. We have been separated for 6 years and I can’t believe it’s been that long when I read your blog posts. It seems like yesterday. Although the pain has mostly subsided for me, sometimes a song, or a photograph, or a movie will remind me… Just wanted to say that I’ve stood in your shoes. I’m sorry that you, and he, and your children are going through this.

P.S. Love Missy Higgins

]]> by: janet http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-238 Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:05:50 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-238 Everything you have been you carry forward into who you become - love doesn't necessarily end but lives and people change. I wish you peace on your journey - there is no destination. janet Everything you have been you carry forward into who you become - love doesn’t necessarily end but lives and people change.

I wish you peace on your journey - there is no destination.

janet

]]> by: Tina-cious.com http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-235 Fri, 03 Oct 2008 15:14:24 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-235 Jess and I have "ex boxes"... we put a few momentos in there and chucked the rest. It's still your past. :) Jess and I have “ex boxes”… we put a few momentos in there and chucked the rest.

It’s still your past. :)

]]> by: cris http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-234 Fri, 03 Oct 2008 12:59:42 +0100 http://awakenings.blogsome.com/2008/10/03/pictures-of-you/#comment-234 the memories need to be put away for a time. they will always be bittersweet, because some are good and some are painful, but you lived through the times, and the memories belong to you. do not make the mistake of denial...change happens but those memories are about what made you who you are today. there will be a time where its easier and sometimes important to look at those memories. but for now, just put them at the back of a drawer, deep in the attic, or just away for safe keeping. the memories need to be put away for a time. they will always be bittersweet, because some are good and some are painful, but you lived through the times, and the memories belong to you. do not make the mistake of denial…change happens but those memories are about what made you who you are today. there will be a time where its easier and sometimes important to look at those memories. but for now, just put them at the back of a drawer, deep in the attic, or just away for safe keeping.

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